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Lingam/Prostate Massage....Explained!!!!
22-Mar-2007
The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is Lingam
and is loosely translated as "Wand of Light." In
Tantra or Sacred Sexuality, the Lingam is respectfully
viewed and honored, as a "Wand of Light" that channels
creative energy and pleasure.
Orgasm is not the goal of the Lingam massage although
it can be a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal
is to massage the Lingam, also including testicles,
perineum and Sacred Spot (prostate) externally,
allowing the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he
may not be accustomed to. From this perspective both
receiver and giver relax into the massage.
Men need to learn to relax and receive. Traditional
sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal
oriented mode. The Lingam Massage allows the man to
experience his softer, more receptive side and
experience pleasure from a non-traditional
perspective.
Beginning the Massage
Have the receiver lie on his back with pillows under
his head so he can look up at his partner (giver).
Place a pillow, covered with a towel, under his hips.
His legs are to be spread apart with the knees
slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees
will also help) and his genitals clearly exposed for
the massage. Before contacting the body, begin with
deep, relaxed breathing. Gently massage the legs,
abdomen, thighs, chest, nipples, etc., to get the
receiver to relax. Remind the receiver to breathe
deeply and to sink deeper into relaxation.
Pour a small quantity of oil on the shaft of the
Lingam and testicles. Begin gently massaging the
testicles, taking care to not cause pain in this
sensitive area. Massage the scrotum gently, causing it
to relax. Massage the area above the Lingam, on the
pubic bone. Massage the Perineum, the area between the
testicles and anus. Take time when massaging the shaft
of the Lingam. Vary the speed and pressure. Gently
squeeze the Lingam at the base with your right hand,
pull up and slide off, then alternate with your left
hand. Take your time doing this, right, left, right,
left, etc. Then, change the direction by starting the
squeeze at the head of the Lingam and then sliding
down and off. Again, alternate with right and left
hands.
Massage the head of the Lingam as if you are using an
orange juicer. Massage all around the head and shaft.
In Tantra there are many nerve endings on the Lingam
that correspond to other parts of the body. It is
believed that many ailments may be cured by a good
Lingam massage. The Lingam may or may not go soft as
you perform this technique. Do not worry if it doesn't
get hard again. You will probably find that it will
get hard, then go soft, get hard again, etc., which is
a highly desirable Tantric experience, like riding a
wave, bobbing up and down. Hardness and softness are
two ends of the pleasure spectrum.
If it appears that the receiver is going to ejaculate,
back off, allowing the Lingam to soften a little
before resuming the massage. Do this several times,
coming close to ejaculation, and then backing off. It
is important to remember that the goal is not orgasm
in and of itself. Men can learn the art of ejaculatory
mastery and control by coming close to ejaculation and
then backing off on the stimulation. Deep breathing is
key here and will soften the urge to ejaculate.
Eventually ejaculatory mastery will allow you to make
love as long as you want and you can become
multi-orgasmic without losing a drop of semen. Orgasm
and ejaculation are two different responses that you
can learn to separate. The result is a very expanded
sex life.
The Sacred Spot
Find and massage the male Sacred Spot. There is a
small indentation about the size of a pea or maybe
larger midway between the testicles and anus. Be
gentle and push inward. He will feel the pressure deep
inside and it may be uncomfortable at first.
Eventually, as this area is worked on and softened, he
will be able to expand his orgasms and master
ejaculatory control. You can massage his Lingam with
your right hand and massage his Sacred Spot with your
left hand.
Try pushing in on this spot when he nears ejaculation.
The man may have strong emotions come up during access
to the Sacred Spot. Be the best friend and healer he
could have in that moment. You, the giver, are
creating a place of trust and intimacy.
Ending the Massage
When he feels complete (with the massage), gently
remove your hands cover him and keep him warm. Most
importantly, allow him to rest quietly for at least
five to ten minutes.
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